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The beauty in love marriages and arranged marriages.

Love vs arranged People usually take sides on the subject of love and arranged marriages, on how they think which last more years or which is better because they went for that option or are planning. But nevertheless, Love marriage and arranged marriage are two routes to getting married. In love marriages, people who have mutually found each other decide amongst each other to get married whereas in arranged marriages, usually the parents or family, find and arrange their marriages. The debate comparing them both, about the best way of choosing the partner is very old and many times baseless. Why can’t both ways of getting married be beautifu l? Both have their pros and co ns In western countries, people laugh at the idea of arranged marriages. In   India however, Marriage is not just a union of two people but a coming together of two families, many times of different traditions and culture. An arranged marriage focuses on this family union. While looking for a partner for their son

The best age for any person to get married.

Many people take one thing into consideration before looking into marriage for themselves or for someone else, be it love or arranged marriage, is Age. Certainly, the decision of getting married is the biggest step in a person’s life, and selecting the right time to get married is also of sheer importance.  There are many theories built around by many experts about the ideal age for marriage, which are to get married between ages  28 to 32 in order to avoid getting divorced in the first 5 years or to have a successful working marriage  for a longer period of time. Other than this people themselves decide that they would settle down only when they have successful careers and enough time out of their work life. Although this approach seems the most logical to most people, it might not always work out that way, it could take a long time for someone to become successful in a field, and even after that, they may not get enough time for themselves to look for marriage. For some, The best